While talking to a friend of mine today, she had a good question:
Is it normal for my dad to just walk around like nothing happens?
She later explained that after he touches her he’ll just go pay the bills, watch tv, or some other random/daily activity. I think it is a valid point to understand that people who choose to abuse their children, or even strangers DO NOT walk around with their head hung in shame or announcing what they have done. It is their point to remain as normal as possible and to fit into society so that they can continue to harm others.
Please be aware, that even the nicest man/woman, the leader of your church, or neighbor are people who could abuse. The key is to understand the signs of abuse and educate those around us on how to protect/tell so that we can do something about it.
Silence is their friend.
Tiffani